You Deserve Love AND Respect
According to the U.S. Census Bureau as of 2012, 112 million Americans over the age of 18 are unmarried. That number makes up almost half of the adult population. In years past, you were expected to have a quality long-term relationship and eventually a marriage …
New Book: Survive, Live or Thrive? by L. Lynn Gilliard This is a guide for those who feel that they may be stuck in a rut in one or more areas of their life, including: – pursuing your dreams – making good money – …
I am a strong believer in soul mates — mostly because I believe I have met one of mine. My definition of a soul mate is someone who you can experience the ultimate feeling of love with in life. A true partner.
There are people that you meet who you just instantly click with and develop a bond very quickly. Nothing can stop you from being together. This is why I say that when true (mutual) love calls, you can’t really stop it from happening. It’s going to happen, eventually.
So knowing this, there is no need to worry and fret about the various guys that may come into your life. If they are meant to be there, they will be. There will be a knowing that you can’t really explain with words. They’re going to end up in your life, in some capacity, no matter what.
People who force relationships to happen with people who they don’t have a real connection with usually end up very unhappy. Sooner or later it ends and they can’t understand what happened.
True love is easy going. It’s relaxed. It doesn’t hurt. It feels so good. There’s that KNOWING — you just know that everything is going to be fine with this person. It might happen with someone you would never picture yourself with, but you meet, you connect and you become inseparable.
So don’t feel bad when you meet a guy and it doesn’t work out. Brush him aside and keep experiencing life. Keep your focus on the type of guy you want in your life who is just for you — not just based on looks or superficial stuff, but that undeniable connection. You never know when you might attract someone who’s just right for you.
Love Lynn
As women we have visions of sugarplums dancing in our heads when it comes to what we want from a man. What do we want from a relationship? Everything! He has to be kind. He has to look good. He has to make you happy. …
As young girls and young women we’re taught by our parents and the media that having a man is a part of being a complete woman. It happens both subconsciously and blatantly: – “one day you’ll grow up, get married and have a big wedding” …
The fear of rejection isn’t a problem that only men deal with. Countless women also struggle with this fear.
Men deal with rejection early on in the dating process while women deal with it later on. The fear usually kicks in right after a woman has sex with the guy she’s dating or develops feelings for him.
You must conquer those fears of rejection if you want to date successfully. And if a guy was to decide that he wants to move on, so what? Let him go. Bye. Next!
Pssst… A Little Secret
Here’s a little secret: when you date smart, exude confidence and high self-esteem, reserve sex for the right guy and put your own needs FIRST, the guy you’re dating won’t want to go anywhere.
Conquer your inner fear of rejection and believe wholly in your worth as a woman. The value that you place on yourself is the value that he will HAVE TO respect!
Love Lynn