You Deserve Love AND Respect
Should you respond to a guy who ghosts you? How long should you wait for a date invitation? Is he really a good guy or just putting on a show? Does he turn into a different person when he’s been drinking? Why should you watch the way he treats his mom and sisters? Get answers and no-nonsense dating advice for women here.
Celebrities, reality stars, social influencers, and everyday women do young girls a disservice by pretending that their relationships are “perfect.” Tell them the truth about life and relationships so that they can make better choices. Recently a popular reality television personality from a show that …
“First comes love… Then comes marriage… Then comes Mary with a baby carriage.”
Do you remember that little childhood song? We would sing it to tease someone who had a crush on a boy. We’d also sing it when playing patty cake to keep up with the beat.
If you grew up believing in that song, you may have believed that every guy you meet who shows you attention will eventually be your husband and the father to your baby.
Zoosk has a new commercial that reveals the truth about dating with the simplest tagline ever: “First Comes Like.” The idea is that a relationship doesn’t start off with love — it takes time to develop into something real. You start off as friends who just like spending time with each other.
In my book Let Him Chase YOU I make the point that a special bond has to form between a woman and a man before a relationship blossoms. Before that, it’s just dating. It’s just fun. A lot of women make the mistake of sleeping with a guy before that bond forms, which is why they often find themselves dumped or ignored shortly thereafter.
So take Zoosk’s simple advice: first comes like. Take it slow and allow a bond to form between you and the guy you’re interested in. Don’t rush things, just relax.
And Let Him Chase YOU.
Love Lynn
Women & dating advice — can we take some cues from our feline friends? I am a pet lover — I’ve had both dogs and cats. But I’m partial to cats because I think they are the most like humans. They’re smart, crafty and have …
According to the U.S. Census Bureau as of 2012, 112 million Americans over the age of 18 are unmarried. That number makes up almost half of the adult population. In years past, you were expected to have a quality long-term relationship and eventually a marriage …
This is a guide for those who feel that they may be stuck in a rut in one or more areas of their life, including:
– pursuing your dreams
– making good money
– dating and love relationships
– family relationships
– self-love
Though the book is specifically targeted for women who are experiencing challenges in their lives, the concepts apply to everyone. Fueled by the idea that life is meant to be easy and enjoyable, it is loaded with stories, blog posts from Lynn’s websites and other inspirations and thoughts to help propel you to the ultimate goal: THRIVING in every area of your life.
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A lot of women (myself included) believe that when you first meet a guy, playing hard to get is the right way to go. That may be true to a certain extent, but not to the point of indifference (not answering messages, acting as if …
I am a strong believer in soul mates — mostly because I believe I have met one of mine. My definition of a soul mate is someone who you can experience the ultimate feeling of love with in life. A true partner. There are people …
For a time, ever since my life transformation I’ve experienced a weird phenomenon with certain men.
The guy approaches me. He’s extremely interested, has a nice conversation with me, but then leaves without asking me for my information to connect again.
At first I think, “well damn, did my breath stink or something?” LOL But of course I just shake it off.
I finally realized what was happening. It had nothing to do with my looks or what I said.
It had everything to do with the confidence and determined attitude I exuded when talking to these particular guys. I was not the type of woman they were looking for.
You see, each of these guys were slime balls. Players (or wannabes). They were fishing.
They looked at me from afar, liked what they saw, and thought they’d try their luck at running game on me for a potential one night stand.
But when they stepped into my energy they became uncomfortable. They realized that I wasn’t a pushover and I wouldn’t be scammed into their beds that night. So they moved onto easier prey.
In the past, my desperate, needy and eager to please energy would have led the no-good guy to pursue me all night long, right up until I landed in his bed! They love women like that — those women are easy to conquer.
So this is a really good thing. My energy is finally up to a place where the slimey guys can’t stay in my presence for long.
When you’re “vibrating” at a high level of positive energy and have high self esteem, bad guys just can’t tango with you. They can’t fool you. It’s a scientific fact. They will run scared with their tail between their legs.
On the other hand, this also leaves you in a place where decent, wonderful men (gems) can be drawn to you in a most magnificent and perfect way. They ARE up for the challenge. You just have to open up your energy to receive the right type of guy in your life and then LET HIM CHASE YOU!
Love Lynn
As young girls and young women we’re taught by our parents and the media that having a man is a part of being a complete woman. It happens both subconsciously and blatantly: – “one day you’ll grow up, get married and have a big wedding” …